Billing & Support

  • How can I cancel my subscription?

    If you aren’t satisfied with the Performance Anxiety Program for any reason, please let us know within your trial period (7 days from the purchase date) so we can cancel your subscription without charging you.

    Another way for cancelling your subscription is by clicking the “Manage subscription” link on your profile in the members’ area.

    After the 7th membership day, your paid subscription for the Performance Anxiety Program begins, and you will be charged $37 one-time.

  • How do you protect my privacy?

    To process payments and collect personal details, we use a highly secure checkout page that meets strict industry compliance standards.

    Once you’ve bought the Performance Anxiety Program, you sign up for our members-only area using just your first name, nickname and email. This minimizes the private information you provide. Plus, any messages or communication you get or send in the members-only area are SSL encrypted.

    Finally, we will never share your details with anyone other than third-party providers, as laid out in our privacy policy.

  • What will the charge look like on my credit card statement?

    Don’t worry, buying this program is very discreet. All you’ll see on your credit card statement is “BLS*Between Us” – that’s it.

The Performance Anxiety Program

  • What’s included in the program?

    The Performance Anxiety Program is a mindfulness-based audio recording course. It has one goal: to help men reduce the stress and worry in bed that can often lead to losing their erection and frustrating their sex life.

    The program revolves around 8 weeks of guided mindfulness meditation, with each daily session running between 10-20 minutes.

  • What is mindfulness?

    Mindfulness is a practice where you focus on being aware of what you’re sensing and feeling in the present moment, without interpretation or judgment.

    More importantly, mindfulness is a proven way to reduce performance anxiety and restore erections.

    You don’t analyze why you feel a certain way or if that’s good or bad. You just experience the present moment. When you do that, you use mindfulness to relax the body and mind, and reduce stress – which is the key to overcoming performance anxiety.

    However, while it sounds simple – and it is – mindfulness does require some practice to be able to do whenever you need (such as when you’re in the bedroom).

    You can learn more about mindfulness here.

  • How does mindfulness reduce stress?

    When we’re worried or stressed about a future event or overthink something that happened in the past, we get anxious. And that’s a problem.

    The brain can’t be in two different “time frames” at once. It can be in the present, past, or future… but only one at any given time. Mindfulness teaches you how to draw attention back to the present moment in a non-judgmental way, so you eliminate stress and worry about the past or future from your brain.

    But mindfulness works another way, too. By practicing it, you can enhance the activity in the brain associated with attention and emotion regulation. When you strengthen these parts of the brain, they promote a relaxing and calm effect on your body. The more you practice, the more you can “re-wire” your brain to react in a calmer way when in stressful situations.

    This has been proven in various studies, which you can read more about here.

  • I’ve never tried mindfulness meditation or even meditation in general before. Is this program for me?

    We designed this program so anyone could easily follow it from start to finish, whether they had experience with mindfulness or not. Once you start, you might be surprised by how simple and effective this can be… not to mention that it’s a safe, quick, and pill-free way to get your erection back.

  • Do you have any reviews to show this program works?

    Yes, we have many reviews from sex-therapy experts and men who no longer worry about performance anxiety. You can find their thoughts on the program here.

  • When can I expect to see results?

    In order to overcome performance anxiety with the Performance Anxiety Program, all you need to do is practice for 10-20 minutes every day. Within 8 weeks, you should see your sex life change for the better.

  • Can this program help non-straight men?

    Absolutely. Mindfulness meditation helps to reduce the stress you feel in bed and increase your calmness and sense of relaxation. It has nothing to do with your sexual orientation.

  • How do I join the Performance Anxiety Program?

    It’s very simple. Just click here and enter your credit card details on our secure ordering page. Once payment is completed, you will be redirected to the members-only area for registration.

    Once you’ve registered, you get full access to the program so you can start practicing immediately.

Performance Anxiety

  • How do I know if I suffer from physical or psychological Erectile Dysfunction (AKA sexual performance anxiety)?

    You have two easy ways to know whether ED is psychological or physical. If you get an erection either…

    1. On waking up in the morning
    2. Masturbating

    …and you have no trouble maintaining it, then it’s safe to assume your problem is psychological, not physical. The Performance Anxiety Program is designed to help you with psychological ED.

  • Why do I experience performance anxiety?

    Sexual performance anxiety typically happens because of stress, anxiety, or negative thoughts related to the sexual encounter. Some of the more common reasons include:

    • Worry about your partner’s satisfaction
    • Worry about getting and maintaining your erection
    • Worry about your performance in bed (such as how long you’ll last)
    • Starting a new relationship
    • How much sex you’ve had recently
    • Relationship issues
    • Stress at work or other areas of your life
    • Financial reasons

    Whatever the reason, the result can be the same: losing your erection as things heat up and turning what should be an enjoyable night into a frustrating experience.

  • What is the sexual performance anxiety loop?

    After you lose your erection once or twice (for any reason) you may start to worry that this will happen the next time you have sex.

    The more worried and stressed you get, the more likely you’ll lose your erection again. Ultimately, this creates a self-fulfilling prophecy or a negative feedback loop that feeds itself. Getting trapped in this loop can be almost too easy once you’ve had one or two brushes with performance anxiety, but breaking out is much trickier.

    The Performance Anxiety Program was specially created to help you escape the loop, feel more relaxed and confident in bed, and most of all, keep your erection around for when you need it most.

  • Does age or relationship status have any effect on performance anxiety?

    Sexual performance anxiety can happen to ANY man at ANY age.

    Plus, it doesn’t matter if you’ve been in a long-term relationship, just starting a new relationship, or having casual sex. If the situation stresses you, you may hit trouble getting or maintaining your erection.

    What’s worse is that after a couple of these frustrating experiences in bed, you might run into the “domino effect”. You start to worry that it will happen again so much it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy that stops you enjoying sex before you even get into the bedroom.

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